Almost everyone knows that heartache. Often ridiculed as a teen problem, against a bar of chocolate and wise sayings such as -Other mothers have beautiful sons- help. Lovelorn but a serious problem. Especially if you are not a teenager anymore, and with the lost love more than just a relationship is on the rocks …
Lovesickness
What we do not do anything if we have lovesickness: We cry and curse, comfort us with chocolate or refuse the food, we suffer and plotting its revenge and introduce ourselves in the most dazzling colors, as he returns to us. We fool ourselves all over the world for jumping jacks, and we do not care.
Lovesickness caught almost everyone in the course of life, no matter how old he is, what profession and social class he belongs, whether man or woman. However, the sexes have different ways to deal with heartbreak. Women talk to trust people openly about their pain. Men, however, conceal a rela hungs out in the rule. Silvia Fauck, psychological consultant and founder of the first heartbreak practice of people says: “Men keep lovesickness for a weakness and prefer to speak with a professional consultant who keeps silence.”
Suffering body and soul
Who was left, whose love remains unrequited or who must end a relationship, the consequences experienced not only mentally, but also physically: Lovesick suffer for example, loss of appetite, lethargy, insomnia and headaches. Researchers at the University of Tübingen found that certain brain areas in women after a breakup a short time no longer work. And these are the regions that are responsible for emotions, drive and motivation and those that control the sleeping and eating habits. But above all, the patients suffer psychologically. The thoughts revolve around the lost partner. And the earth is against all odds.
This shows that lovesickness is far more than just a fast transient sadness and should be taken seriously. -This has been going over again. This just needs some time. – Well-intentioned advice to help an affected person usually little. Especially if it hits people who are beyond the teen ages and will not lose with the partner a brief friend, but the life partner with whom you had planned his life. Break this love, a love is not only destroyed, but whole life plans. And that makes the situation much more desperate.
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