THE EFFECT OF HABITS TO THE RELATIONSHIPS
The decisions taken by couples have power of effecting their lives. The balanced and harmonic relationship effects the other ares of lives. If everything is okey at home so every is okey out of doors.
If you feel yourself valuable, comfortable and secure in you relationship so your relationship is the right one for you. But if you cannot integrate with your relation and you do not feeel yourself comfortable and there is negligence in the relationship so relationship sounds a note of alarm. You need relationships which you are accepted even if you disrobe your all clothes in your soul. You need to be accepted as you are.You should not hide your personality because you should continue to be loving with your faults without being judged.
People start their relations with the desire of having satisfying and everlasting relationships. There is desire of continuing lifelong.You live many things and learn many things as couple. Of course you live some problems. Finally you feel that everything is okey. There is no argument and there is no hypertension. Everything comes about. In fact the relations do not have characteristics like this. The point you arrive is only silent and dangerous point in your relationship.The relatioship is in routine now and in this point the relation is hooked in stationary state. This likes crashing of ship to the rock cliff. The relationship is followed route by habits and the life source of couple which is sincerity and love began to dissolve. This is the point where couples begin to sashay from eachother and this prevent them to express their emotions and feelings to eachother.
It is handicap from relationship point of view to invest to habits. The habits can be sign of becomig strangers to eachother of couples.Living is changing and when you routinize the habits you cannot be aware of changes. At the end of the changes you can not settle with the things that you achieve after the change.And when you realize this you reach a deadlock.Your expectations and your contributions to your relationship loses their meanings. So you release to think about yourself and your partner. If you start to living in this way you arrive that black point which you can not cognize your partner.
Love, sharing, loyalty, harmony and agreement is needed for the relationship of couple. It is very valuable for couples to feel himself/herself as the complement of his/her couple. But s/he should stay as s/he is in this integrity. This is needed for mutual understanding of the developing and changing expectations. The couples who identifies themselves and who can express themselves do not invest to routine. They are sensitive to the changing targets and needs of their relatinships. They do not cover the problems they dicuss and solve their problems. Whatever the life present to couple, they should be ready to face this and be ready for living and sharing the life together.